Health update for those interested: went to primary doc and he said I could have two different things going on...a pulled stomach muscle and also possibly a virus or acquiring lactose intolerance...never had lactose problems before, but ... So, he gave me some stuff to help my colon from having possible spasms and took me off dairy for a month. AUGH - how will I survive LOL !!?? We'll see. Today was better than yesterday. xo extra sized ball styled items to wear of the wedding